As Grandma's first born grandchild, I feel so grateful that I had the pleasure to have her in my life for almost 56 years--not many people can say that...She was an angel here on Earth. Grandma took care of her sister when Irene lost her fight to cancer. She helped Uncle Frank when he became ill. Grandma told me that on his death bed, Grandpa Poos made her promise to take care of Uncle Adam--she fulfilled that promise. She always lent a helping hand where needed.
I spent a great deal of my childhood summers and weekends with Grandma and Grandpa. I loved going there. Whether it was in Milwaukee, Mucwanago, Mayville, Almond, Menomonee Falls, or Waupaca. Grandma was my favorite person on Earth and I loved her like only a granddaughter could love her Grandmother. She had patience. It wasn't that long ago that I called her to ask about a recipe or some family history. It always comforted me to hear her voice. I called Channel 4 one time and told them that she was my angel here on earth and they aired it...I wanted tell all who could hear how lucky and blessed I was to have a grandmother as strong and resilient as she was.
She became our family's Matriarch...she didn't take guff from anybody. When her eyebrow raised, I knew someone was in trouble--and the higher it went, the madder she was. I just hoped it wasn't me.
Grandma didn't lead an easy life...she lived through the depression, WWII as a soldier's wife with a child in tote, and many more heart breaks as she watched her grandchild, two spouses,a daughter, son, sister and brothers, other family and friends pass on. She said she had a good life. If I could have kept her around until I turned 93, I would have--but I'm a little selfish that way. I loved her more than anyone and she loved me unconditionally.
My favorite picture of her is when she was a child. She was only 4--maybe 5. She had on hand me down pants from Uncle Pete or Uncle Frank that had a rope as a belt. She was standing with her arms folded and was ready to take on anyone who dared try. I'm not sure where that photo is.
I will forever miss her, but I've got the best of her in my heart and memory. She needed a rest from taking care of everyone else--now it is her turn to be taken care of...I'll see you in heaven...